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Sunday, March 24, 2013

Stumbling upon a fun Cookie Shop

We picked up Mat from the airport last Friday night. He was feeling okay.  His guts were a little off, but we're hopeful that he will bypass a parasite and be alright in a few days.

Saturday we puttered around town ...birthday party, house samples for the remodel, and we stumbled upon this cute cookie shop. Ruby something on 800 S 300W.  It was pricey, but an experience and fun family outing.

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Gretchen read these funny cards which made them sound twice as funny because they were coming from a 7yr old.

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My favorite cookies were the mole, mocha and mango chip. I think this is Becket's face after trying the bacon chocolate chip cookie.

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He quickly washed it down with Brigham's Brew

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Honestly it was just fun being together as a family.  We missed Mat a ton and it was fun to be back in the swing of things, laughing and playing around the town.

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Friday, March 22, 2013

Tea Par-Tae

While Mat was off to Haiti, my mom came up for her spring break and we played. We went up to Brigham one day and got pedicures with her sisters and went out to lunch.  We watched My Fair Lady because Gretchen is doing a biography on Audrey Hepburn. I'm singing, "The Rain in Spain ...." now. We also had several tea parties hosted  by Micah and one by Grand America.

Here's Micah

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And here we are at the Grand America

Mary Crawley (me):

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Here's the flower blooming after hot water was poured on it.

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Mrs. Crawley trying green tea (mom):
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Mrs. Crawley not liking the green tea:

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And then we have Mr. Bates, who surprisingly walked into the hotel without a limp (brother):

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On Thursday we caught the movie Safe Haven since we both read the book and then my mom headed for home.

It was a lot of fun to hang with her and I'm glad she came. It was fun to hang out with you too Casey.

Thursday, March 21, 2013

March Madness

We filled out our brackets Sunday, how bout you?  I think Gretchen filled out 5 brackets, but that's Gretchen for you.  She loves probability and she will be fun to watch the games with! She gets fired up and would love the title of champion.  We invited a few friends over Sunday night to join in the madness.

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Becket went a little mad himself and put together this outfit.  Wish he would have turned around to let me snap a picture of his cute buns in this leotard!

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May the best bracket win!

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Haiti

Here are some of Mat's thoughts on Haiti. It's a hard place to go to and a hard place to send him to , but the trip is so worth it. Even if it's just a few, there is one starfish saved.  The hardest thing he had to do was turn away people because they didn't get in soon enough. Some of these being small children who traveled far, whose eye's had already scarred and the damage was irreversible. On the flip side, some of the people were lucky enough to catch Dr. Harris on the week he happened to be there and he was able to save them. Each day we would skype with Mat, I would feel guilty sitting in my home, with my kids, my health care, and food to eat.
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MARCH 15, 2013 BY DR. MATHESON HARRIS

some thoughts from the third world (a term that needs to go away)

I’m on my way back from another week in Haiti.  I had many profound, disturbing, humbling and enlightening experiences. I thought I’d share a few here and try and put in words what you would experience if you made a similar trip.
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Eye clinic in Port-au-Prince.
First, I wanted to address the title of this post.  The “Third World” is actually an outdated and useless term, which came about after World War II to describe countries that neither belonged to NATO or the communist bloc.  This third group of countries were very often also poor and the two labels become synonymous. What the term does however, is lower these countries to a status unbefitting of the people living there.  There is no doubt that Haiti is poor, but to cast it and its people aside as being in a different world is unfair and detrimental to understanding their plight.  It takes around an hour to fly from Miami to Port-au-Prince, hardly a world away (remember when Haitians were crossing to Florida in rafts). In truth, they live in exactly the same world as the rest of us, that world just hasn’t given them as much to work with.  As a kid, I never wondered if my next meal was coming, or if I’d have access to clean water. The power was on 99.9% of the time, along with either the A/C or heat.  And if, God forbid, I or someone I knew got sick, I knew every possible treatment was available to them.  These all seemed to be my right as a human.  So when you see people who have little to no hope of achieving many of these basic rights, you can’t help but wonder what is going on in this world.
The good news is, I also saw hordes of people, mostly from the US and France, visiting on mission trips.  Most were with church groups building schools and churches, establishing water sources and doing ministering.  Everyone was jazzed about the difference they made and many talked about what they were planning for their next trip.  You can’t help but think with all this help coming, more than 3 years after the earthquake, it is only a matter time before momentum brings real change to Haiti. Just sending money to their government won’t help, just ask Somalia, Ethiopia, Sudan….
Just a couple of stories of patients I met.  I saw quite a few children with facial deformities due to tumors or hemangiomas, but also due to trauma.  Trauma was the theme of the visit.  This great young kid had been hit in the face by someone a few weeks earlier and had a persistently swollen right eye. I was worried about a foreign body.  During surgery, I encountered a hard mass against his eye and tenting the conjunctiva out where it appears red and swollen in the photo.  It turned out to be a chunk of bone that had been dislodged from inside his eye socket. No one had examined him thoroughly and this had been missed.
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Young man with medial orbital wall fracture
The same day, we saw two men in the ER who had been assaulted. One stabbed in the eye, the other shot through the cheek, with the eye being the exit wound.  Nearly every face we saw seemed to have some sort of scar.
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Several cases of facial trauma
The young man with the stab wounds above had 4 1-0 sutures closing all his lacerations.  1-0 suture is usually used to close very thick tissues, such as the abdominal wall, not delicate structures like eyelids.  I removed them and replaced them with about forty 6-0 and 7-0 sutures.  The young woman above had numerous scars dating back to the earthquake, which split her eyelid in two and left it retracted.
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Several post op patients
Her repair involved borrowing skin from her right upper eyelid to lengthen her left upper eyelid, as well as a full thickness resection of her scar and realignment of her eyelid margin.
The cases we did were all difficult, but the cases we couldn’t do were the hardest to deal with. We saw several patients with large growths emanating from various parts of their faces. They had saved money and paid for a CT scan (around $300, average monthly income is $60).  The scans showed invasive tumors filling their eye sockets and often extending into their brains.  Surgery was not an option.  When I’d recommend an oncology consult, the residents would shrug.  They knew that even with a consult, the treatment necessary would not be available in most cases. As one resident said when I asked her to explain to a patient what we were seeing, “tumors don’t go over well here, everyone knows they are going to die.”
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Orbital masses
Anyone interested in helping us out, can either donate to CharityVision or contact our office. Every trip we identify a slew of instruments and supplies we need to offer better care.  Any help with attaining these supplies is greatly appreciated.  My retired partner, Dr. Call, and I have committed to having one of us visit every 3 months. The needs are seemingly endless.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Alteration on the Old Door Table

We have now lived in our house 11mths and we are starting to have a unified direction in how we want decorate it.  We're trying to modernize it more and our country chairs and spindle legs on our table did not go well.

Mat and Micah worked hard on a 20 min leg switcharoo.  She was cute getting right in there. He was also really cute letting her help.  What a great Dad!

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Can't wait to see him Friday evening.  He's coming back from Haiti and I hope he will be watched over. He will be pretty exhausted (well for Mat exhausted), so I'm glad he'll have the weekend to catch up on sleep.

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

While the Man's Away, the Wife Will Organize

That's usually what I do when Mat's out of town. Organize.  Pick one closet, cupboard, or messy creepy corner and bam it into containers! The exercise room was having less room to exercise:) I headed out and grabbed some containers and I got right down to it.  It took me just a night to muck it out and boy did I have fun doing it. It clears the cobwebs in my head. Pure meditation.

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Mat's got so many brilliant projects going and sometimes not going that we needed to "contain" them.  After I had finished, I simply pulled up a chair plopped down facing my finished project and soaked it all in.  I was a tad sore the next day, but oh so worth it!

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It's so blurry, but just wanted to show you the room I have to exercise now.

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Gretchen thought she had this leftover container marked, but I always find a use for containers! I used it for a bigger holiday storage box.

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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Pocatello, ID=Francises

Kids were out of school Friday, so we took a quick trip up to see our friend's Dave and Mel. Zanna asked if we knew each other in Hershey and Mel responded, "She was your second mother." It's true.  We watched, we played, we monitored, we did almost everything with our kids being the same age.  They are just a cute little family that goes with the flow.  Very easy to be around.

We met them at the Lava Hot Springs.  The water was hot. Almost too hot.  It's amazing how that warmth just pops out of the earth.
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We even had to get Creamies to cool off!

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We walked down main street to a cute little pizza place right our to the seventies. It was perfect!

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Then we headed up to Pocatello to Mel's house.  We stayed up late, of course, talking and watching the kids sing American Idol on the X Box.

The next day we ate lunch out and played in the sunshine.  My kid's faces are rosy today. We also grabbed soft serve yogurt at Kiwi Loco.  Yum!

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Thanks for having us Mel and Dave.  I think this might be a regular getaway. I loved the long walk, your automatic light sensors in the pantry and mud room, and I loved that the kids still get along so well.

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

The Get-Real Summary

A whole lot of hibbity hoo has been going on I suppose. We're kind of just waiting until Spring hits so we can come out of our houses. Here are a few updates for the old catalog:

Lot's of volunteering at the school.  It's been fun to have little groups or individuals to work with.  It's like I'm teaching, but without the commitment and time contraint. I find that if I can just help one kid feel awesome about themselves, then it's made my day. That's my goal anyway. I love to watch them smile and beam when they figured something out. Priceless.

Mat's been volunteering as well at the Senior Centers, giving free lectures on eyelids and free muffins and juice, which they love.  They love a doctor with treats.  Mat's also headed to Haiti on Saturday for a week on a medical mission.  I always worry and pray that his travels find him safe.

I think I might take a pottery class. I might try my hand at the "wheel".  I've always had a fetish for serving dishes. Why not make them? Also, I've been printing my own T-Shirts and tea towels on the side with a little added cross stitching (Thx Colleen). I pop in a book or hook up with a movie on Netflix and away I go. Everyone needs to dabble into something while on earth, I just need to eventually become100% expert at one of them :-)

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Kids had a piano recital Saturday.  Becket=Mr. Bean somedays.  He went up to the bench, sat down and instead of jumping in and playing he looks over at us and waves. I had to point at the piano to get him going.  He had the look of "Oh yeah!" Love that kid.

New dining room chairs, although they sent us double our order.  I'll have to call them and see what they'd like us to do with them. We'll be changing the legs of the table to metal as soon as Mat gets home tonight. I'm sure of it.

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Went to the home show with my aunties and mom a while ago (can't believe I haven't posted it).  It's always a fun girl's weekend with laughs, opinions, car rides, and other activities.  I adopted LeAnn to be one of my new aunts.  She's my Aunt Bentley's friend and a pure delight. We had so much fun. I hopped on a flight back to SLC from Cedar which made my travels zippy. Did you know their flights are only $56? From St. George they are twice that.

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From the home show: I want to do this to my mud room except....

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I want to add these C-clamps for hooks

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We're starting the process of remodeling our kitchen. Yes, we have great countertops and cabinets already, but we need it to tie in with our not so traditional house. There are also a few little function/efficiency issues I have beef with my kitchen too. We're getting bids and the tab keeps growing. I'm not sure where to draw the line because I feel that once you tear up your house, you might as well do it all at once.

And my kids have been passing out all over the place because they stay up so late reading.  Not a bad thing, except in the morning when I need to get them up.

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And I'm loving my new yellow boots all of $20 bucks. They serve as my all weather boots and have that wonderful smell of fake leather.

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